The Triple E Framework created by Dr. Liz Kolb is a practical guide for teachers to gauge whether or not they are integrating technology in a meaningful way with students. Their engage, enhance, extend rubric is an easy way to check for connections between the chosen technology and the lesson's learning goals.
Using the ISTE Standards for Educators, teachers can assess their own abilities with technology integration
The ISTE Standards for Students contain lists of abilities students should have for transformative learning with technology
In Michigan, the MITECS are the guiding benchmarks for technology education
Common Sense Media has great reviews on Ed Tech as well as curricular resources
The Cult of Pedagogy website has links to their blog, podcast, and other great tech-based resources for educators
Getting involved in a group like MACUL (or whatever your state has) is a fabulous way to learn from others